I don't think so
Being a combined family, there are constantly little things that cause issues. Little things that maybe would be nothing if it wasn't a combined family. Those little things are not good and I'm not sure if they could ever be eliminated 100%. They pop-up at the most unexpected times and they make your heart drop.
Last night, one of those moments happened. It was something I could have avoided and didn't. Something that I always avoid ahead of time. Something that got witnessed by another mother. She even said she saw the happiness drain out of my face. It wasn't a huge issue. It isn't something we can go through, but it still lingers.
After witnessing it, the other mother looked at me and said "this is why, if anything happened to(insert her husbands name), I would never remarry."
I have thought about this before. I love my DH and for the most part we keep these little things to a minimum. Yet, if something was to happen to him or to us, I don't care if every single site in the world let me search for free and sign-up for free, I wouldn't do it.
Not just because of the kids, they are almost grown. More for me. It is a lot of work, adjusting to an others presence. Combining your lives and building a foundation. I know it is nice to have someone help carry your burdens. There are just some times, when you would rather stretch out in your comfy jammies and be alone.
All these feelings, from my DH responding to my son's request to get something to eat at the game. I always just give the kids money, before the game and I forgot! Evidently, he doesn't realize this. How does he think they go from school to football game - not home to 11pm at night without eating. And why in the world would it be okay not to feed your children dinner? I hurt inside for my son, who was given a rough time for wanting a sandwich.
I won't let this happen again.






